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Uchenna Taiwo's avatar

Ebun you’re a gift that we do not deserve!!

This was a therapy session

What the hell!!!!!

A massive piece ✨❤️

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Ebun's avatar

Thanks a lot🙌

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D. Adebusayo Oke's avatar

So relatable, nice piece.❤️

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you❤️

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Jade's avatar

Lol if I start to speak on my perspective on this term, we’ll probably sleep here😭

But I resonate deeply with the part that emphasizes ‘the closure you give to yourself’- it’s the hardest part of healing.

And yes Ebun, matters of the heart are very messy

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Ebun's avatar

You just hate closure, don’t you? 😂

Yes it definitely is the hardest part. Being separated from them and having to do it all by yourself.

Messy asf. But when it works out, it’s so beautiful.

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Jade's avatar

I don’t hate closure at all.

I just like to discern when it’s needed and when it’s not. I’ve found that most times, it’s not🙂‍↔️

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Ebun's avatar

Fair enough, you know

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Rosemary Eze's avatar

This resonated with me so well. One of my closest friends then in high school got married yesterday and I wasn't aware. Heard it from a mutual friend. My heart was broken. i mean,we are cool,we talk, but not often.couldnt understand why she did that. Wanted to hit her up to ask "why" but ended up congratulating her..it's sad.🥺

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Ebun's avatar

That must have sucked a lot damn… Sorry about that❤ It’s really sad, but yeah, people do what they want, and sometimes we must accept it that way.

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Profound!✨

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you!

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sekemi's avatar

I love and appreciate people that actually consider closure.

It's just easy for some people out there to wake up, take a decision and not even bother explaining to their loved ones...at least who they claim is

Tchhh

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Ebun's avatar

Yeah it happens sha. It is what it is.

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oluwamurewa's avatar

Beautiful piece❤️

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you❤️

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Dami's avatar

Your writings are always therapeutic. Thank you so much for this🤍

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you. You’re welcome❤️

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