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Ayobami.'s avatar

This is a personal attack but I’m really working on this

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Iwuoha Evelyn's avatar

This was a good read, but I think a part two of what to do will be greatly appreciated

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Ebun's avatar

Noted with intent

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Muhammad Mukhtar's avatar

Ok, this is really good, and easy to read also. Maybe I'll try something like this.

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Ebun's avatar

Glad to inspire

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Princess's avatar

Thank you! This piece is sooo relatable

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Ebun's avatar

Glad you liked it

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Justin Markey-Thomas's avatar

Indeed! Great work.

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Chinny's avatar

Ooh wow 🥺🥹😂, someone wrote to me now.

Very relatable

Thank you for sharing

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Ebun's avatar

Glad you like it

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Oorethelightbearer✨'s avatar

E tuff😪

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Ebun's avatar

Yes, it is

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Lumiwrites's avatar

🥹🥹😭😔💯

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Gold💕's avatar

Looking on the inside from the outside

Never too close ,a bit too far

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Ebun's avatar

Yup!

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Amina🦦's avatar

This is a relatable and honest portrayal of the struggles with intimacy and connection…the writing is so beautiful and thought provoking…Thank you for sharing this piece with us✨

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you, Amina. Glad you liked it.

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Faaizah's avatar

Even though I feel called out or naked, as this beautiful piece has done, deep in my heart, I know the cycle would continue because I just cannot fathom the change. I mean I’ve tried, I promised myself change this year but now we’re in April and not much has changed.

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Ebun's avatar

You’re alive and you’re aware of the issue, which means you can change.

You just have to ask yourself if you want it bad enough to do the difficult work.

Cause it’s hard and it’s everyday and it’s a lot and lot of effort.

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Morẹ́ni’🤎's avatar

Read this in my email as a snack, then came on Substack for the real meal because what manner of exposure is this? 😭

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Ebun's avatar

Glad you like it

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Morẹ́ni’🤎's avatar

Pure. Real. Relatable.

Sometimes being human makes you drift from the very things or people that keep you human

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Ebun's avatar

Happens once a while

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Rugi 🌹's avatar

🥺 Thank you so much for this beauty

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Jade's avatar

Damn🙂‍↔️

You should have just added my name mehn.

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Ebun's avatar

Next time, I will

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Jade's avatar

Lmao😂

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ogu Onyinyechi's avatar

This is literally me🥲

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Ebun's avatar

Glad you see yourself

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