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Okobaroh Timothy Odiri's avatar

Success that's valid definitely take time, asfar as you are running in the right path. 😔

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Ebun's avatar

I agree

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Favour U.'s avatar

This has weighed on me for a while now and I had to just drop a piece on it. You can read here if you wish to.

https://pheivasmusings.substack.com/p/wait-for-me?r=nd6l5

I'm sincerely glad that I'm not the only one who sees what this 'fast lane' living is doing to us.

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Thank you so much for this. Its always a delight to read your piece.

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you so much

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BEN's avatar

This is so real you know, I think most young people need to read stuff like this.

Your life is probably not as bad as you think... If you can free yourself from the pressure and take it a step at a time. You'd not regret it.

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From Odiki's avatar

Thank you so much for this. Many times even if others feel that I'm doing great things and i know I'm doing just fine i still feel like I'm not doing enough. This is so real

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Ebun's avatar

Happy to help

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Muktar Abiola's avatar

Very explicit

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Ebun's avatar

Thanks

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Ebun's avatar

Thanks

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Sta💫's avatar

This is amazing, I wish every young person could see this

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you!

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Beloved's avatar

Thank you so much Ebun

I really needed this.

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Ebun's avatar

You’re welcome

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thepeoplevsAD.'s avatar

Society has seriously made the timeline for everything so much faster

It’s good to remember that while trying, you really do have your whole life ahead of you

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Ebun's avatar

And that’s a lot of time mehn.

Just for God to protect one.

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Lefix's avatar

Wow 😯

This is a lot ... Thanks for sharing,

It appears at the right time.

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Mopelola's avatar

Thank you Ebun🥹🥹

I wish I could give you a hug for writing this beautiful piece.

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Ebun's avatar

You’re welcome😂

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Joanna Enoch's avatar

You're amazing!!

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you!

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Ayodele Grace's avatar

Thank you Ebun,This came during a veryyy low time for me,I was literally thinking about all the pressure to be successful and how everyone seems to have it figured out but this really gave me clarity💗

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Ebun's avatar

You’re welcome

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Odeh Victoria's avatar

Thank you Ebun 🥹It's like you've been in my head.

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Ebun's avatar

You’re welcome

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Gamster's avatar

You don't know how alot of us needed to read this, feel seen, and not alone.

🥂 to becoming

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Ebun's avatar

Cheers🥂

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Abdulmalik ^⁠_⁠^'s avatar

This was so helpful to me, I'm just 18 and I feel that pressure of not doing well enough or being where I'm meant to be. It's a crazy feeling but thanks for enlightening me better.

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Ebun's avatar

You definitely have more than enough time to achieve big things

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Lisa🌸's avatar

Thank you so much for this.

We are still becoming. Here's to enjoying that process 🥹❤️

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Ebun's avatar

Cheers 🥂

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