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Toochi Ogbuchimalu's avatar

Thank you for pouring out my thoughts. GenZ will loud "I don't care what anybody says" and then go on to delete socials and wallow in depression because of people's comments. We're made to care. We're all influenced and we're influencers.

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Ebun's avatar

True words

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Jemima's avatar

“If you constantly downplay your gifts, why should anybody else highlight them?”

I felt this part most

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LEMON.'s avatar

As always, thanks for being different and speaking the truth. 💕

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Ebun's avatar

No problem!

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MICHAEL TOBI ADU's avatar

This is soo good!

Thank you, Ebun.

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you

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Abdulmalik ^⁠_⁠^'s avatar

Chai, see where this guy carry point from, you are HIM bro 😭 🙏. Great stuff.

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Ebun's avatar

Glad you liked it, thanks

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Ajibola emmanuel ayomide's avatar

But ebun with this write up do you agree we give impression indirectly even when we do not intend to either good or bad impression right?

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Ebun's avatar

Yes I do

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Ajibola emmanuel ayomide's avatar

God be with you

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Ebun's avatar

Amen, thanks

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sachi.'s avatar

Needed to be said, thank you for this! I’m praying for you.

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you!

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Letter Of A Medic's avatar

Ebun thank you for this wonderful piece that deeply resonate with we as humans.

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you!

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Ede's avatar

This made me laugh so hard. Gosh, we humans and trying to pose as nonchalant.

To yourself be true.

Thank you Ebun for this🤍.

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Lara's avatar

Glad to see you’re suffering

I’m here for all of ittt

And yes most people that claim to be unbothered and non chalant are chalanting in secret like mad

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Lara's avatar

Yes. You all are suffering

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Ebun's avatar

Dey play 😂

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Lara's avatar

Something you just admitted to

No let me beat you o

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Ebun's avatar

I’m battling sun, like the other 200m Nigerians

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Ebun's avatar

I kuku no dey suffer😂 let it go

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Uchenna Taiwo's avatar

Amazing stuff ✨❤️

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Ebun's avatar

Thanks a lot

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Felix Michael's avatar

First read. Thank youuuuuuuuu for this!

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Ebun's avatar

You’re welcome

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Rochell's avatar

love this! you're officially my favorite author <33

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you, Rochell❤️

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thepeoplevsAD.'s avatar

I totally agree, people try to prohect the idea of nonchalance but internalize the perceptions others have of them

It’s like trying to do the least but expecting the most, it seldom works out

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Ebun's avatar

Those that try to force it the most are often the ones that care the most

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thepeoplevsAD.'s avatar

Facts

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