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Toochi Ogbuchimalu's avatar

When they're writing about THOSE MEN, I Take solace in the fact that they're THESE MEN too. This is timely, expository and engaging. And the title? I'll remember it for a while...take your flowers 🌺

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Ebun's avatar

I appreciate it

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Juliet A.'s avatar

A long read but totally worth every line .

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you for reading

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Uchenna Taiwo's avatar

The title !!

I literally gave a long smile

Cause it’s true..

Amazing article

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Richard's avatar

"Your sexual desire is YOUR problem"

Sonethings you have to do for your own sake

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Chioma Sampson's avatar

I saw the title and in my head I was like “Nawa oo” 😂😂.

But, I'll like to thank you so much for this, Ebun. I felt it all, the pain, the raw passion, the voice! It cut deep into my soul. Everyone should read this.

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Ebun's avatar

Thank you for reading

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Odeh Victoria's avatar

I thought we were still on Samson 😂 but heyy I love the trajectory this🥹. Strive towards discipline! It's possible!

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Ebun's avatar

Yes, it is

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Thalia Utibe's avatar

Ebun, I don't know how many times I can say 'thank you' but I'll say it twice. Thank you for writing this. On behalf of women, on behalf of men, really, thank you for writing this.

And it feels good to know that there are young men who think this way. Sometimes I see stuff on the Internet and around me and I'm like "are there any good ones left?" This is a good reminder that there are.

God bless you.

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Ebun's avatar

Amen, thank you for reading

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The Note Guy 🖋's avatar

When I saw the title of this post on my notification, I literally shouted "Hey! God abeg" 😂

This is great write up 💯

Every young man must read.

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Ebun's avatar

Thanks for reading

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Salvin Sawyerr's avatar

Thank you for this timely reminder, Ebun. We all need to remember this every now and again. Discipline is possible.

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Ebun's avatar

It is

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DAMI's avatar

You deserve something chilled

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Ebun's avatar

I do

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pineapple🎀💫's avatar

Hey so... I love you Ebun. Don't go bald

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Ebun's avatar

I don’t ever ever plan to❤️

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